Climbing the Mountain of Pain Management

Living with pain is very difficult, as there are many times when there is no way possible for me to get rid of it or be comfortable enough just to relax.  Having physical pain can be a constant obstacle for many people, including myself.  Instead of remaining angry or frustrated, I try to create soothing options to mitigate the pain, like soaking in a hot bathtub or by taking deep breaths.  One thing I have to learn to live with is managing the pain.

Another thing that helps me to manage the pain, is to create distractions.  While the pain in my body is real and not just imaginary, I’ve found that activities that take my attention help me to focus on other things , such as reading or watching a good movie, especially if it makes me laugh.

Sometimes the pain is so bad, I feel like giving up.  Even admitting it is a struggle.

There are many definitions of what chronic pain is, as everyone’s body and tolerance levels are different.  What I’ve found to be important is to seek out help as soon as the pain sets in, as it becomes harder to talk about as the pain gets worse.  As in my own case, I began noticing that my Fentanyl patch began losing its impact and the pain began to increase.  I tolerated this for months and did not speak up about it.  Now it has caught up with me and has become more of a crisis, as the pain level seems to have hit a tipping point.

If you’re living in pain, I would suggest that you try other possible solutions to mitigate the discomfort before turning to medication.  A few examples are, acupuncture, physical therapy, or light exercise in a swimming pool.  These are examples of things I tried  before turning to narcotics, which for me was a Fentanyl patch.  The reason I suggest trying non-medication solutions first is because you avoid long term risk to your body brought on by possible side effects and long term effects from the medication.

If you are new to chronic pain, I understand the frustration, anger and other emotions that say, “this is too much.”  I know from experience that it seems like some days feel like they’ll never end, as well as the pain.  In this case, medication can be a short term solution while you explore other alternatives for a longer term solution. The key is to take one day at a time and not worry about tomorrow, next week or anytime in the future.

Disclaimer: Please check with your doctor before stopping or starting any medication, treatment, therapy or exercise.

About Angela Pierce

In 1985, Angela Pierce survived a 125-foot free fall while mountain climbing, breaking her bones in 168 places. Her story of survival is a miracle. The lessons she has learned over the last 27 years are an incredible inspiration to others who must climb their own mountains every day. Visit her website, Falling Off the Mountain.

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Let’s Reach Out to People Living with Illness and Pain

Let’s face it; life is busy. People have work, kids, household, church or clubs, activities, travel and more.

Nonetheless, in the midst of our active schedules, let’s remember those who live with illness, pain and/or disability. We may have a friend, family member, someone at church, at work or a neighbor. Although our schedules can get crazy, we can prioritize and even give up a few things that really aren’t that necessary.

 Often those living with a debilitating condition are isolated and feel lonely or forgotten. There are many, simple we can show our love that don’t necessarily take much of our time. So, let’s show them they are important to us by sharing our love with them throughout the new year!

We can remember them with a card, a surprise gift in the mail, a phone call, bring them a meal or arrange a visit. We can also offer rides to doctor appointments, ask what they need from the grocery store when we are there or fold some towels while visiting with them.

During the Holidays, we are often going in even more different directions with shopping, cooking, cleaning, hosting guests, parties and so many more activities. It can be overwhelming to say the least! Yet, we can make a point to invite our friend, family member or neighbor to join us for one or more of these events. What a gift it would be to be included!

For many, they may not know until the last minute if they will feel well enough to attend, so we should be patient and understanding. Others may know right away that even though they would love nothing more than to join us, they simply can’t. However, if they are unable to come, we can still make an extra plate or two to drop off to them or take time for a nice visit. For those who live far away, we can remember them by sending something in the mail or making a phone call.

For lots more ways to be encouraging and supportive to loved ones, see our book, But You LOOK Good!

Let’s work together to make a difference throughout the year!

Wayne and the IDA Team

About Wayne

Wayne is the Founder & President of the Invisible Disabilities Association (IDA). His inspiration for IDA is His wife, Sherri, who lives with Multiple Sclerosis, Lyme Disease, Neurological Chemical Intolerance, Traumatic Brain Injury and Anaphylaxis Food Allergies. Wayne is the Author of the booklet, But You LOOK Good! How to Encourage and Understand People Living with Illness and Pain. He has spoken at seminars, conferences, health fairs and banquets to create awareness, education and support. His personal experience includes that of a professional, multi-tasking husband caregiver with an extensive background in management, media and technology. This man on a mission quickly launched IDA into a world-wide outreach for millions living with invisible disabilities. Wayne and the IDA Executive and Advisory Teams reach out to others living with illness, pain and injury around the world. They bring encouragement and awareness about invisible disabilities to friends, family, co-workers and businesses through websites, projects, articles, pamphlets, seminars, events, videos, radio and social networks.

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Calm Amidst Chaos

Calm amidst chaos?

Isn’t that an oxymoron?

Calm amidst chaos. When I heard that phrase today, it stuck in the little cobwebby corners of my grey matter.

Since then, it’s been rolling around, breaking through some of those sticky strands.

Given that I’m writing this article today, the tenth anniversary of 9/11, I can’t envision any calm amidst the chaos of that day, or the days immediately following it.

The heroes who helped, the heroes on-site, the ones in the hospitals – they likely didn’t feel any more calm than the victims or their loved ones felt. But I’m betting that if any calm was found that day, it might have been felt by the injured who were in the arms of, or under the gaze of, any of the emergency workers, including nurses, doctors, paramedics or any other healthcare professionals.

Maybe it comes naturally to some, maybe it’s in the educational training, but healthcare professionals seem to exude a certain calm in any storm, on or off the job. Lucky for the rest of us whose days might deteriorate at the mere sight of a torn fingernail.

While it’s in no way the same scale or significance of event, I would say that most of us experience individual shakeups that might feel like our own mini 9/11. Most often, our biggest shakeups involve sudden health crises of our own or of a loved one.

At those times, our world is unexpectedly rocked. We don’t know what’s going on anymore. What our calendars showed as priorities, no longer are. The world we thought we knew is wiped away and replaced with the unknown. Lots of unknowns. More question marks than answers.

What happened, and why? How do we fix it and recover? Or do we? Who needs to be involved? Where do we go from here? How much time will it take? What does the future look like – and can I get a guarantee with that?

In the meantime, in the haze, we’re left wondering if it’s the left foot or the right foot that takes the next step.

If we’re fortunate, we have family or friends whose presence can be calming. Often times, though, they’re struggling with the same issues we are. It’s hard to lean on a pillar if the pillar itself is leaning.

The ones not leaning are strangers: those strangers who take care of us when we can not, who guide us through unknown territory, who lend some calming compassion to an otherwise objective frame of mind.

It’s the calm we need when the terrain around us changed without our permission. We need a little guidance around the newfound stones, rocks and boulders in our path.

We lean on you, our healthcare professionals. We might have only met, but it’s your strength and calm that keeps us navigating through the fog.

Our individual, private catastrophic events are ones you see every day. They don’t throw you off as they do us. If they do, you’re a master at disguising it. And the Oscar goes to…YOU!

I long ago lost count of how many healthcare professionals calmed me during my own health crises or those of loved ones. Repeatedly, you’re there, offering calming reassurance, even in the face of unknown or fatal outcomes.

If only for an instant, you make me believe I’ll be ok, no matter the outcome.

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Reprinted with kind permission from www.NurseTogether.com.

About Kris Harty

The Short Chick with the Walking Stick is Kris Harty, Stickability Specialist. Kris’ expertise as an entrepreneur and a lifelong patient helps entrepreneurs and those in healthcare – on the giving and receiving ends – to persevere and Stick To It-No Matter What! Kris speaks, writes, facilitates and regularly contributes to online medical journals, in addition to recently publishing her first book A Shot in the Arm and a Strong Spirit: How Health Care Givers Help Patients Persevere. She can be reached through her company's Web site, www.ShortChick.com or call 1.877.711.KRIS or through any of the links directly below.

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Invisible No More: Andrea Fabry

Through the project, Invisible No More! the Invisible Disabilities Association is bringing awareness, compassion and belief to millions living with debilitating conditions, shining a light on the “invisible” and making these valuable, incredible people Invisible No More!

This video features the story of Andrea Fabry and her family who experienced severe mold toxicity from their home. Andrea now strives to help others facing the same issues as well as those who are healthy, by sharing their journey and what they have learned. She is the author of two websites: Our Health Journey and momsAWARE.

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